Blaming

The foolish always blame others,
Thus creating silent enemies and disasters.

The clever always blame themselves,
Thus gaining sympathy but also doubt.

The wise blame no one,
Understanding that no one sincerely wants to commit a mistake,
But does so because of a lack of knowledge, or limited choices or chance.
They inspire improvement in all companions.

From the book the foolish, the clever and the wise by chai na phol

Thinking process

The foolish drift endlessly in thoughts and find themselves floating in the endless currents.

The clever create new thoughts , most of which are wonderful but too good to be true.

The wise manage their thoughts
Creating,embellishing or deleting, based upon the situation.
Reaping the greatest benefits and enjoying the whole process.

from the book foolish the clever and the wise

Moments of truth.

Chilled Jazz
In a day people can realize many moments of truth if they really concentrate on their activities closely. Many times I just sat back when things happened without any warnings and the truth was laying out there in barely daylight.

I love to chat, talk and be with my close friends when ever I can. Talking and zipping good coffee also good if it is just between close friends and talking in harmony.

A few weeks ago I went to a nearby province and when we were out of business we went to have a cup of coffee and some sweets at a starbucks coffeeshop. We were talking of all things and suddenly I saw the interesting poster up there so I asked a girl there to take the photos. I think that is a nice one and meaningful. When I showed this photo to them they bursted out laughing. That is a moment of truth too.

Sometimes people are so serious in our daily activities, works. They do not even see the smiling bees or passing by animals thought they look at it but do not see it.

Shall we slow down a little bit and see the changing clouds? Let our imagination flows.

Moments of truth are lying there, barely in sunlight.

relationship

we all have to trust someone in our live. This is what a friend of mine just told me last night and i fully agree with him.
this friend of mine his wife has just asked for a divorce after married him for ten years. she is going to marry my friend's best friend.

I think our live is just a blank canvas waiting for us to put colors on it. We can do anything with our live,to stay with someone or to depart someone, only that what we do should not hurt others that we care. in my life i used to trust someone who i thought that i would stay with her for the rest of my life but later she departed me. i only trust my wife nowadays with my life.

in relationship with others we should be sincere and care. without the true feelings of care then there is no use to make friends because sooner or later your friends will find out and not any true friends can accept it.

Beautiful Songkhla beach

I have a habit of going out to the beach in the evening. I run in the evening from my house a long the beach almost every day but not always that I go to the beach in the morning, early morning. Today I went there in the early morning, about 7 a.m, and so I found some different atmosphere completely different from the evening usual scene that I see every day.

In this morning I saw only a few people at the beach and it was very clean. There were old retired men and women exercised on the beach and some sat on the chairs under those trees. The place was very quiet and peaceful. The sea was calm in the sparkling bright sun.

I sat on a lonely chair and looked at the reading pose monument on the road circle. I felt that whenever we were alone in a peaceful place we could think of things more clearly. I thought of many things that I had done lately. Something brought me unhappiness and some caused unhappiness to others too.

I went back after sat there for an hour. I had some new views of life.

Stay on today not of yesterday or for tomorrow.

Thanks to the Songkhla beach.

Speaking

The foolish like to argue;
They only like to create conflicts and contradictions,
Instead of gaining knowledge.

The clever like to ask,
They create relationship and gain knowledge.

The wise tend to remain silent;
They observe deeply.
And propose the appropriate.

From the foolish, the clever and the wise by chai na phol